Dating...where do I start?

Among the many perks of life is to be able to go out in the world and meet people, make friends and perhaps...something more. Being of certain age doesn’t mean that getting out and dating is over. In fact, for many seniors, it can be an exciting and life affirming experience. Yes, in this day and age, dating may seem like a enormous leap to make. With the bulk of modern dating relegated to apps, navigating the new digital frontier of dating may seem off-putting. Perhaps the technological aspect of it is not so much of an issue. For some, many have either been married and later divorced (perhaps a few times even). For others, they may have enjoyed a long and loving marriage with a partner only to have lost them. Many older people will have a variety of things in their pasts but what matters is that you’re trying again for a connection. After all, it is the quality of the relationship that outweighs all else. So now that you’re here, where does one go to meet singles? Do I need an app for dating? Where do I start? 

• Dating need not be complicated! Living independently doesn't mean living alone. There are many ways to meet a potential date. Start with the gym, aerobics classes, or walking groups. Staying active is important and vital to your health and you’re likely to find yourself in the company of others who value their health just as you. Making friends in your group can also expand your social network and who knows who you may meet? 

• If you’re feeling that you’d like to try something different then try an app. The app frontier is nothing to fear. Sure, it’s different and a complete departure from what you’re used to but we are trying something new, right? The common format in all dating apps is the creation of a profile. Be honest in your description of yourself, add photos and be ready to search and be discovered. Popular sites include Match, eHarmony, Our Time and many others. As with all dating apps and services there will be monthly fees for their use. 

Remember, dating is supposed to be fun and it’s completely normal to be nervous. Don’t rush into a relationship or give up. Take your time, be safe and prudent, but most of all, enjoy it. Taking the chance and getting out in the world can seem frightening but once you do, you’ll open yourself up to another facet of your life that will light you up the same as when you were a teenager. With this in mind, you’ll have our blog to thank for your next (or first) date. 

For more information please check out the following link: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.aginginplace.org/seniors-and-dating/amp/